What Was Never Learned

I never learned

that people are not meant to stay,

that closeness does not guarantee permanence,

that hands held today

may be empty tomorrow.


I believed friendships had roots,

not expiry dates.

I believed laughter meant loyalty,

and presence meant commitment.


I never learned

that parents, too, are borrowed,

that even love wrapped in prayers

can be taken by time,

leaving rooms full

and hearts hollow.


Those who once called me their favorite

where did they go?

Their words still exist,

but only as memories

that do not answer back.


The irony is heavy

if years ago everything had been placed on the table,

if silence had been replaced with truth,

I would have stood there

still choosing,

still staying.


But the past does not stay quiet.

It waits in the heart,

collecting moments,

waiting to be felt all at once.


Some who say they stand with me

still carry old conversations

where my name was not protected.

They walk beside me in public,

but leave me alone

when growth begins.


This is the sharpest pain

not being left,

but being left while moving forward.


They stay for comfort,

not for becoming.

They celebrate the beginning,

but disappear at the climb.


And I keep walking,

strong enough to continue,

soft enough to feel everything.


I am not grieving people.

I am grieving assumptions.

The belief that presence meant permanence.

The belief that love always stays.


Now I know

some lessons arrive late,

some truths arrive broken,

and some clarity arrives

only after loss.


And even then,

I keep going.


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