Yes Not all men, but always a man.

A weak man marries but doesn’t take responsibility for his wife.

He has a child, yet abandons the mother to struggle alone.

He can’t accept ‘no,’ so he turns to violence to get what he wants.

He is married, but still holds feelings for another woman.

He already has a child but insists he wants to start a new family with someone else.

He grows a beard and pretends to be religious, yet he commits terrible acts.

He opposes laws that protect children from early marriage, yet happily celebrates the West. 

He speaks of honor and respect, but never actually shows them to others.

He claims to follow his faith, but his actions prove he does not.

He never learned what real love is, yet he insists he loves—but it’s only abuse and control, not love at all.


Yes, not all men—

but it’s always a man who does these things? 


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