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BY TAYYABA KAKAR Invest in girls education not in her dowry  Unhappy marriages often make its way to countless  divorces but that doesn't mean one has to stop living. Society need to understand the fact that if your daughters are struggling, fighting with problems in in-laws, parents need to have a balance look whether they are happy or not. Your responsibility is not only to marry your daughters but to look either they are happy there or not. Moreover in case of love marriages parents close all doors for their daughters like they have committed sin without understanding any logic they just put their judgmental views. Mindsets needs to be changed, marriages are not guaranteed by any law neither it's business to be upgraded through any investment.  If they return home welcome them warmly, give them confidence that you deserve better.  Your moustaches don't define your masculinity... Your mindset does ! 

  By TAYYBA KAKAR   Family is not always your blood relations. Sometimes strangers get more close to us and perform those activities and duties which has to be performed by family members. If families are not present to support you emotionally, financially or socially then its useless to call them as family. Its divine phenomena, though cannot be changed but yes cannot be often consider. In every family few are financially and socially strong, few are born disable, few are born abnormal, to support each other, to stand in crucial times with one another. If you lack these qualities then sorry you are not worth to be called as a member of family. Sometimes its in shape of teachers, friends, colleagues, neighbors, CLASSMATES, but not "MAMA, CHACHA, KHALA, PUPO, COUSINS. There were two families in this world, relatives formed blood family and friends the water family. If your blood family happened to be nice and caring, you could count your lucky stars and make the most of it; and if

BY TAYYABA KAKAR Its been long I have seen children been trolled on this very thing that your parents are separated. These children are already lacking confidence suffering from social anxiety. Normally in separations the one who suffered a-lot are only children because their parents are already indulged in so much hatred for each other, they don't care much for each other,  in addition they have families to support them socially, financially. But what about those children, now  their family is no more?. In such situations taunting them on every inch and pinch will demolished their social characters. In the end we all are humans before these social statuses and relations we are humans and humanity shall be upheld In each and every case. They are the same children who are indulged in immoral activities, they are the ones who are drug addicts. If parents can't understand each other what's the need of giving birth to an  unfortunate child, why you are putting their  entire lif

       Author Tayyaba kakar   HAZARAS Hazargi speaking ethnic group are known as hazaras. Originally they are from hazarajat region located in central parts of Afghanistan like bamyan, jaghori and daykundi. However, they are distributed among different regions of the world. In Pakistan majority of this ethnic group resides in Quetta, covering around 1500,000 population of the province and are said to be the most educated community of Baluchistan. Hazaras being in minority are suppressed and oppressed from their rights for about last several years. Though the constitution of Pakistan guaranteed the rights of minorities, still they are suffering for no reason. International conventions and organizations guaranteed the rights of minorities, still they are deprived of basic and fundamental right that is “right to life”. WHY? They cannot move freely in Quetta. They are limited to few areas like hazara town and Alamdar road. WHY? At the age when children play on roads, ride bicycles on roads